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RE: Random Thoughts - jamixoxo - 31-08-2013

(30-08-2013, 04:28 AM)flamesabers Wrote:  

(30-08-2013, 04:08 AM)Missed Miss Wrote:  

(30-08-2013, 03:57 AM)flamesabers Wrote:  I've been thinking about coming up with a name to describe ourselves in regards to our common pursuit of NBE. I know we're all individuals with our own backgrounds and gender identities, but I'm thinking it may be useful to have a term to refer to ourselves as a group. How about "bosom buddies" or something to that effect?

That was already a t.v. show starring Tom Hanks and Peter Scolari.
Tit Nitwits
Wanna B's
Jug Slugs
Jug Mugs
McGuffie Toughies
Over-The Shoulder Boulder Holder Molders
Burly Girlies
Ooo!! How about, "Breast Friends"?

I like "Breast Friends."

a few more:
"Twins Team"
"Moob Squad"
"Can-Can Club"

I thing "breast friends" is still winning!

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RE: Random Thoughts - Lotus - 31-08-2013

Yeah!! The Wanna B's sound's the best,maybe add club to the end. WANNA B CLUB ….....

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RE: Random Thoughts - pom19 - 31-08-2013

(31-08-2013, 07:16 PM)Djz Wrote:  Yeah!! The Wanna B's sound's the best,maybe add club to the end. WANNA B CLUB ….....

How about- Boobies Club?

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RE: Random Thoughts - Missed Miss - 31-08-2013

The Hooters Rooters

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RE: Random Thoughts - PattiJT - 07-09-2013

I had a thread about 15 pages back, that I'd rather not resurrect. I had more to add to it, but an incident occurred that cut it short. Rather than bring it up then, as it was a bit disturbing personally, I just kind of dropped out for a couple weeks to deal with it. Then other events occurred that ensured my further absence. This being the "random thoughts" thread that was started as a result of that thread, it seems like a good place to toss it out.

Back in March, things were going great. I was a bit conflicted regarding deciding when it might be appropriate to back off NBE or go to a maintenance dosage. I was quite satisfied with a pair of 44s, and considering I was at 160#, they had become "points of interest". While the discussion was taking place here, my wife and I made a short trip to a nearby town to take her best friend some things out of our garden. While my wife and her friend and I were talking, her friends' husband came over and said hello. (her friend is also Korean, and small-breasted). He then just reached out and groped me, saying I ought to wear a bra. Then, as I stood there in surprise, he did it again. Now, it didn't hurt physically, but the mental shock, and the emotional reaction were a huge surprise! I don't know what his wife thought, but I definitely had a lot of thoughts. Both ladies laughed, as did I, when I recovered momentarily. but I really didn't feel much humor. I later told my wife that I was rather pissed off about it. She more or less blew it off as no big thing, so I have been trying to figure out just why it bothered me so much.

Was it my fault for putting them out there? Was he being a turd? Should I just get used to it and expect it? Am I feeling the same things a girl feels when that happens? Should I even resent it at all?
I guess I'm a little bit ticked at myself, too, for not realizing that it just might happen someday. In one respect, it's probably a good thing that it wasn't a stranger. I do know a couple things. I'm not about to become a homebody, and after the last 6 months being off any NBE with no loss to the boobs, they're going wherever I go. Actually, I may be 1/4 " smaller, but that could be the way I measured. I've gotten a few looks in the past, mostly from girls, and a few snide comments as well. Usually I pass it off with a smile and just go on. Being groped, now that's different. Almost like being violated in some way.

Has anyone else had this not-so-wonderful experience? And how did you deal with it? I seem to remember Flamesabers having mentioned something similar, but haven't had time to go thru a gazillion posts to find it. I'd appreciate any opinions/thoughts. You'd think after 6 months I'd have resolved it, but not quite. I don't lose sleep over it, but it's often on my mind.

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RE: Random Thoughts - Missed Miss - 07-09-2013

I HAVE been groped a FEW times, but each was long before any of this girl stuff was going on with me. And they were all in a different means, context and situation, but, in at least the third case, I was a bit resentful, however, if what happened to you, happened to ME, I'd also feel kinda violated! I don't know that I'd be all that pissed about it and I don't think it'd weigh heavily in my mind, but I'm SURE it'd pop into my thoughts from time to time.
The first two gropes that I recall having to deal with were from an older next door neighbor, Norbert Carr. I eventually found out that he had a copy of "Jesus Christ Superstar" and I asked if I could borrow the album. He complied. When I took it back to him shortly after, he told me he had something he wanted to give me but I had to go upstairs to his room with him to get it. (He & his mom lived on the 2nd floor of Mrs. Leech's house.) So, I did. Once we were up there, he showed me a plastic triangular device that he said was a baseball catchers protective cup and then showed me how to wear it, then asked me to try it on. He wanted to give it to me, but I didn't want it and, I don't even WATCH baseball, let alone PLAY it, and, if I did, I CERTAINLY wouldn't want to be the catcher!! Next thing I can recall, we're both lying half naked on his bed and he's playing with MY plonker and asking me to play with his. I wasn't more than 15 at the time, I'd guess he was at least twice my age. I didn't want to be there! But I didn't quite know how to get out of the situation. Eventually it was over and neither of us completed the "task at hand".
Not too very long after that, he got me again!! Decades later, I found out that he also got my little brother (13 or 14) and little sister (11 or 12), too!! During one of my "sessions" with him, he said that he wanted to become a priest!! Later, I told one of my friends about it and he laughed saying that was very appropriate. I didn't know what he meant, then, but, now I do!
Fast forward to late Oct. `04. I went to my best friend's apartment to listen to music with her, but she wasn't home. On the way home, just after dark and on the verge of a lunar eclipse, I had to change buses in town, and, while waiting for the bus (the stop was RIGHT in front of a porno shop!! But that didn't bother me at all.), there was a black couple hanging around and, from what I could see, she was a prostitute, because she propositioned a number of guys driving by. She was short and VERY dumpy, and he was tall and skinny. I can only guess that he was her pimp. After about 20 minutes of waiting for the bus, and watching the eclipse, hardly paying any attention to them at all, she walked past behind me and gave me a slap on my crotch from behind!! Her hand went from my asshole all the way over my balls!! I'm guessing this was her way of trying to entice me to have sex with her. But, I wasn't buying. I didn't exactly like that she did that to me, but, I didn't think that much of it, either. It was like, "Okay, I've been had. It's official." And I just blew it off and continued waiting (bus) and watching (eclipse).
While writing this, I just remembered another such incident. It was probably a short time before the previous incident. We (my band) were playing a gig one night and a friend of the band showed up to take pictures of us, maybe for our third album cover. We're outside in front of the venue and, being very tall and a bit of a clown, when Deena was getting ready to take a picture, I stepped out in front of the rest of the band (all were just over 5" tall) and struck a pose, arms and legs wide open as if to say, "I'M the star and don't worry about the others.", when, my bass player did pretty much the same move as the hooker!! However, in this case, Dana, who is kinda short and quite dumpy, has HUGE tits, and I just thought, she wouldn't like it at ALL if I did that to her OR grabbed her tits! But, I can take a joke and did nothing about it, even though everyone else had a good laugh over it.

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RE: Random Thoughts - flamesabers - 07-09-2013

(07-09-2013, 08:14 AM)PattiJT Wrote:  Was it my fault for putting them out there? Was he being a turd? Should I just get used to it and expect it? Am I feeling the same things a girl feels when that happens? Should I even resent it at all?

I don't think it's your fault and no, I don't think it's something you should simply accept as being okay. The husband is the one who should change, not you.

Yes, I think it's quite likely you're feeling what a genetic girl feels like when she is groped.

(07-09-2013, 08:14 AM)PattiJT Wrote:  Has anyone else had this not-so-wonderful experience? And how did you deal with it?

No, I haven't been groped, so I don't have any personal advice on how to cope with it.

(07-09-2013, 08:14 AM)PattiJT Wrote:  I seem to remember Flamesabers having mentioned something similar, but haven't had time to go thru a gazillion posts to find it. I'd appreciate any opinions/thoughts. You'd think after 6 months I'd have resolved it, but not quite. I don't lose sleep over it, but it's often on my mind.

Is this the thread you're thinking of?

http://www.breastnexus.com/showthread.php?tid=14325

Do you think it would help if you acknowledged there are jerks in the world like that man and perhaps the most you can do is avoid them as much as possible? Or maybe telling him you don't like being groped might help you bring closure to this experience?

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RE: Random Thoughts - sfem - 07-09-2013

Can't say as I've been groped the same way, although I have had a few people get a surprise when they gave me a friendly nudge or shove in the chest and it didn't feel like they expected. If I were groped as you were, I likely would have wanted to do something back which would have prompted a comment such as, "You really should wear a protective cup." or "Looks like you should have a helmet.". I'm not actually likely to do anything physical like that, but I would be feeling very violated and demeaned, despite feeling very strongly the fault was his, not mine. Rape culture is bad, no matter where someone might have learned it. I really don't think I would have accepted it at the time without at least saying what I thought of his comment and action. I most certainly wouldn't ever go near him again for any reason without a very public and sincere apology from him which you have zero chance of getting. I'm actually sitting here fuming that he did that to you and got away with it. I am also pissed with the two women for laughing it off. They validated his behaviour at your expense. I wonder if they would have been hurt if you had laughed at him groping and insulting them. The whole thing is a bad situation. I'm sorry it happened to you.

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RE: Random Thoughts - jamixoxo - 08-09-2013

(07-09-2013, 08:14 AM)PattiJT Wrote:  ... While the discussion was taking place here, my wife and I made a short trip to a nearby town to take her best friend some things out of our garden. While my wife and her friend and I were talking, her friends' husband came over and said hello. (her friend is also Korean, and small-breasted). He then just reached out and groped me, saying I ought to wear a bra. Then, as I stood there in surprise, he did it again. Now, it didn't hurt physically, but the mental shock, and the emotional reaction were a huge surprise! I don't know what his wife thought, but I definitely had a lot of thoughts. Both ladies laughed, as did I, when I recovered momentarily. but I really didn't feel much humor. I later told my wife that I was rather pissed off about it. She more or less blew it off as no big thing, so I have been trying to figure out just why it bothered me so much.

... You'd think after 6 months I'd have resolved it, but not quite. I don't lose sleep over it, but it's often on my mind.

I agree with others that it's not acceptable behavior (and it pisses me off like sfem) ... But I'm going to take a crack at "devil's advocate" anyway.

Firstly, you said wife's best friend - so I assume you don't have more than a casual relationship with the husband. Without knowing more about him (ethnicity, cultural background etc) it's hard to pinpoint... But it could have been a misguided attempt at trying to form a masculine bond through good natured, but poorly executed, 'ribbing'. Because your wives are best friends, he may have noted that your visits are a good thing for her, and by forming a positive bond (epic fail here) with you, it might increase the frequency, and enjoyment, for all of you.. Since you didn't respond with a rejoinder ('looks like you need a toupe' or 'at least my gut is smaller than my tits') you didn't acknowledge his attempt.. Hopefully he was schooled; if not, and you want to have that bond, you'll have to school him - and immediately be magnanimous: pay for a night out as a foursome, be engaging, etc. Doesn't mean you want a bromance, or even that you've got to be friends, just at least not find him offensive anymore.

Secondly, I recall in college, and earlier, many 'fat guys' reveling in the attention - regardless of how demeaning it was... Lifting their shirts to show of a gross belly, or rolls of fat, or their 'breasts'. The husband may be a product of this environment ('tease the fat guy, he likes it'), or something similar, and never outgrew it. Not saying YOU were doing anything to precipitate it, just that he is stuck in some adolescent rut.

Finally, he could be simply socially challenged (to be polite) - or just plain simple.

All of that might explain the comment - but I have nothing, NOTHING, to explain why he touched you like that. Disturbing...

Blechh, I need a shower - I don't like any of these people, and never have; and the world just keeps making more of them! I've been saddled with a few of these people - and they just never seem to be worth it, in the long run.

-j

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RE: Random Thoughts - ladyboy_in_da_cocoon - 08-09-2013

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