10-11-2011, 08:40 PM
Ah, I see.
Yep, that sounds like me
Me again
Yes, that's definitely me... but not you, now! You've overcome the fear and embarrassment.
I've told 3 people in my life, all in my 20's . The first was when I'd had too much to drink, the second was someone who came out about his homosexuality so I thought it only fair and the last was my wife. Of course at that stage I thought that I was a transvestite.
B.x
(10-11-2011, 08:30 PM)beverley.rose Wrote: Group Three (G3) is composed of natal males who identify as female but who act and appear normally male. We can hypothesize that prenatal androgenization was sufficient to allow these individuals to appear and act normally as males but insufficient to establish a firm male gender identity. For these female-identified males, the result is a more complicated and insidious sex/gender discontinuity. Typically, from earliest childhood these individuals suffer increasingly painful and chronic gender dysphoria. They tend to live secretive lives, often making increasingly stronger attempts to convince themselves and others that they are male.
Yep, that sounds like me
(10-11-2011, 08:30 PM)beverley.rose Wrote: The story is very different for Group Three. In the hope of ridding themselves of their dysphoria they tend to invest heavily in typical male activities. Being largely heterosexual, they marry and have children, hold advanced educational degrees and are involved at high levels of corporate and academic cultures. These are the invisible or cloistered gender dysphorics. They develop an aura of deep secrecy based on shame and risk of ridicule and their secret desire to be female is protected at all costs. The risk of being found out adds to the psychological and physiological pressures they experience. Transitioning from this deeply entrenched defensive position is very difficult. The irony here is that gender dysphoric symptoms appear to worsen in direct proportion to their self-enforced entrenchment in the male world. The further an individual gets from believing he can ever live as a female, the more acute and disruptive his dysphoria becomes.
Me again
(10-11-2011, 08:30 PM)beverley.rose Wrote: The situation can become so convoluted that some gender dysphoric men come to therapy wanting, almost desperately, to be told that they are not transsexual. That would be understandable if they were simply confused and wanted to get to the bottom of their problem. Unfortunately, their stated preference here appears to be more a form of avoidance of the fear and complexities involved in transitioning than it is an honest desire to remain men. For example, there are natal males who desperately want to have breasts but say they would be terribly embarrassed to have them show in public. There are others who wince at the thought of having a female name like Janice or Mary or Linda. There are also gender dysphoric males who think that the social behaviors that most differentiate women from men -- are frivolous and unimportant.
Yes, that's definitely me... but not you, now! You've overcome the fear and embarrassment.
I've told 3 people in my life, all in my 20's . The first was when I'd had too much to drink, the second was someone who came out about his homosexuality so I thought it only fair and the last was my wife. Of course at that stage I thought that I was a transvestite.
B.x