[AbiDrew85]

Yes in some respects you guys have the upper hand, maybe that is why a lot of you get amazing success in comparison the the biologically born female, because nature does screw things up...

Well... I hesitate to say "screw things up" myself. You are who you were meant to be as long as you don't have a soul crushing dysphoria like me. In my case nature did screw up.

Actually, even in my case... I know I'm bringing a bit of religion into the conversation now, but I may be a scientist, but I also have a very close relationship with my Maker and with my spiritual elder brother (I'm Christian). So. It's my very firm belief that I am exactly as I was intended to be. Including being smart enough to correct it.

All bodies are beautiful. It's just that the media has portrayed certain bodies as "more" beautiful than others and so that's what most of us want.

For guys they want to be these solid blocks of rippling muscle.

And for girls we want to have soft hourglass curves.

I happen to be truly lucky and everything about my skeleton shape, body type, frame size, etc, make my ideal female body shape THE ideal female body shape as portrayed by the media.

But there are different body shapes, like it or not. And your ideal body shape is just as beautiful, just different. Don't let the media convince you otherwise.

Also bear in mind... despite the hourglass supposedly being the "ideal" body shape, it's actually HARDER to find inexpensive clothing for that body shape because it is so very rare. Most cheap clothes are made for pears or banana's. Even apples have an easier time, they just usually need to go to the "XL" or plus size ranges. A true hourglass is hard to find clothes for.