[GoneGirl]

Sammie, I've seen you both ways, too. In guy mode, you appear androgynous. You have to expect to be gendered both ways.

I think it's important to know that you are a woman no matter how you present. The only question is can you afford to allow that truth to be seen. I'm reminded of the movie "Lawrence Anyways". Clearly, Lawrence was on the boundary between male and female presentation. The movie taught me that living at the margins can make life rather complicated. Your thoughts?

Hugs,
Clara