12-02-2014, 03:55 AM
Thanks, Annie and Zoe. I really appreciate friendly support right now.
Tonight has been hopefully positive.
Life in our household passed as on any normal night, with even a conversation with distant relatives planning a visit this summer and without any hint of a reason why such a visit might be unwise. Perfectly normal. Other than that pink elephant, that is.
Still, as you observed, Annie, our friendship has always been strong, so there is hope on my part tonight. Still, I do have some doubt that this relationship will ever allow for (stretching a metaphor way too far) the kind of sharing of the elephant sometimes found in some fortunate couples. By that I mean it seems more likely we will arrive at some kind of DADT situation, of unspoken understanding rather than one in which we enjoy, say, joint facials followed by shopping for dresses together. If that is the case, and the alternative is losing her, I can live with it.
One day at a time, girls. One day at a time.
Hugs
PS - I feel like I should rename this thread "Days of Sammie's Lives".
PS Did I mention I was on Ryans's Hope years ago? Really...tee hee...back when I was young and pretty.
Tonight has been hopefully positive.
Life in our household passed as on any normal night, with even a conversation with distant relatives planning a visit this summer and without any hint of a reason why such a visit might be unwise. Perfectly normal. Other than that pink elephant, that is.
Still, as you observed, Annie, our friendship has always been strong, so there is hope on my part tonight. Still, I do have some doubt that this relationship will ever allow for (stretching a metaphor way too far) the kind of sharing of the elephant sometimes found in some fortunate couples. By that I mean it seems more likely we will arrive at some kind of DADT situation, of unspoken understanding rather than one in which we enjoy, say, joint facials followed by shopping for dresses together. If that is the case, and the alternative is losing her, I can live with it.
One day at a time, girls. One day at a time.
Hugs
PS - I feel like I should rename this thread "Days of Sammie's Lives".
PS Did I mention I was on Ryans's Hope years ago? Really...tee hee...back when I was young and pretty.