27-01-2015, 03:09 AM
(27-01-2015, 01:50 AM)Lotus Wrote:(26-01-2015, 09:32 PM)SarahSchilling Wrote:(16-01-2015, 05:57 PM)ClaraKay Wrote: That wonderful, Eva. In my opinion FFS is more important than SRS/GRS/GCS.
Hmm..don't agree with that! Lol to each their own. I have a sex change date this summer. ;p
Good luck with the ffs, Eva!
I would think facial hair removal is more important, let's say even if you could afford FFS (which many can not) what then?, you're still left with that battle. My concern is we're putting too much emphasis on looks, it's the inner beauty that makes a person.
What do we say to those who will never be able afford such surgeries?, better luck next time?, your outcome is bleak, or you'll never understand what it truly means to be female?.
Who gets to decide where the bar is set?, even worse........who keeps moving it lol.
I'm not knocking the decision to change ones shell. No, I don't feel left out either. I will however agree, to each their own and pray for successful outcomes.
Good luck
Thanks Lotus There is a method to this madness... Thats why I started laser and electro before I even went on HRT.... YES thats huge right there... You cant expect to really go "full time" with a beard you gotta shave and try to cover up all the time
It helps to have some thick skin thats for sure BUT I also think a realistic look at whats possible and what you can and cant live with is essential when making a decision like this from the start.... Its HARD to not have envy and jealousy towards those that are more fortunate with genetics or resources... It sure aint cheap either!!!
I guess with me I set the bar pretty high for myself and Im fortunate to have all the $$$ I need to see it through
Ideally though our fucked up "healthcare" system would cover it all though... Please dont let any hardcore "libertarians" like I used to be hear that though, Im not in the mood for the argument I used to think a lot like that but my thoughts on some things are changing.... Maybe its from living and seeing things from a female perspective