28-09-2016, 03:29 AM
its been very much my expierence that lying to you SO(Significant Other), because of your emotional attachment and fear of rebuke due to your own emotional state. ALWAYS leads to problems.
Your distrust, leads to a relationship distrust, Ultimately leading to a meltdown... YMMV, but, after a failed marriage, 20 failed relationships. I realised, just maybe, 'Ignoring the problem and pretending, i can always be the "Me", i present.' might be the real problem.
My best advice,
If your not ready for all of this, dont do it. - None of this is a easy road. Emotionally, Physically. "Breasts come with brains attached" has a deeper meaning than just describing some one with them. Growing your own means accepting that part of your physical self, shares feminem traits. Something thats usually not socially acceptable on a male body that is not overweight.
So either work things out with your SO, and tell them how you really feel inside. Make a plan, with them involved and Stick to it. Or take the knowledge here, archive it and use it when you find out that you really want to.
Your distrust, leads to a relationship distrust, Ultimately leading to a meltdown... YMMV, but, after a failed marriage, 20 failed relationships. I realised, just maybe, 'Ignoring the problem and pretending, i can always be the "Me", i present.' might be the real problem.
My best advice,
If your not ready for all of this, dont do it. - None of this is a easy road. Emotionally, Physically. "Breasts come with brains attached" has a deeper meaning than just describing some one with them. Growing your own means accepting that part of your physical self, shares feminem traits. Something thats usually not socially acceptable on a male body that is not overweight.
So either work things out with your SO, and tell them how you really feel inside. Make a plan, with them involved and Stick to it. Or take the knowledge here, archive it and use it when you find out that you really want to.