[Dianna1395]

Your mileage may vary of course. The main concern after an orchi is that your scrotal sac may shrink without having testes in it. This might mean that you need a skin graft from somewhere else.

some people are able to keep their scrotum stretched out without testes, but yeah.

My wife was very clear that she still want's me to be a man but she want to control the timing and the amount of T. She came up with this idea because I am taking SP and Reishi for month and I am less demanding and much calmer then before. She likes the breasts but she want's to have a husband with breasts and not a girl friend.

I hate colds too, but I would never cut off my nose because of dripping.  Chemical castration has been in use for a very long time.  And is sometimes reversible.  Now, with E, after a bit you will become sterile, but with help you can at least perform to some degree I would imagine.  So, think about it before you cut your nose off to spite your face!

I have to agree with everyone telling you "no."
The easiest means of doing this are all with BAD effects - thing degenerative bone loss, arthritis in your spine, your torso folded over on itself because of degenerated disks...
IF you want to do this, you'll need to look into various sex hormones, either testosterone or estrogen. If you want to "be a man" for her, you'd need Viagra, and even then, the tissue might degenerate to the point you'd be effectively female: no erection, and even if you could it would be a nub...
Then there's eye, brain, nerve, muscle loss and damage...

Bottom line, you need one or the other. Best options are to feminize slowly, and she'll have to deal with it, maybe get used to a sissy or cuckold lifestyle.

I suggest YOU decide where you want to be. There are other fish in the sea. She MUST NOT make this decision for you. She can go along for the rife, or not.
You might want to go look at the Eunuch archive, and also look over at "cuckoldplace.com." Look for threads from poster "Linda 38DD" and see what she's had to say about getting her husband "fixed."

She's not happy about doing it to him, basically.

-Dianna