Wow Jannet, if it's not one thing it's another.
I do hope your wife will get past it and won't let it bother her. I know my wife cares WAAAY too much what other people think, that's why I am not so sure how things would be for us if or when I finally have the talk with her. Anyways, best of luck with her getting past it and not letting it ruin future outings! HUGS