17-10-2017, 02:40 PM
Gamer,
When there are kids involved, they are number 1. They should not be subjected to her and you know it. She could also make shared custody that much more difficult, just by making a scene in front of the kids' mom or other family member, that can really screw things up for you. You are enabling her behavior by putting up with it. Take your most important belongings to your mom's and prepare for battle. You sir/ma'am (whichever the case may be while you're reading this) need to stop making excuses and get out. This will only get worse, the longer you stay, the more empowered you make her. Get out, get a job, plead with mom that its for the sake of her grandkids, find other family or friends to help you out for a SHORT time. Just get out before it gets worse! And it will get worse, i can tell you yhat much from experience. Alot worse. Look up borderline personality disorder, im curious how many criteria she meets... sounds ALOT like my ex.
When there are kids involved, they are number 1. They should not be subjected to her and you know it. She could also make shared custody that much more difficult, just by making a scene in front of the kids' mom or other family member, that can really screw things up for you. You are enabling her behavior by putting up with it. Take your most important belongings to your mom's and prepare for battle. You sir/ma'am (whichever the case may be while you're reading this) need to stop making excuses and get out. This will only get worse, the longer you stay, the more empowered you make her. Get out, get a job, plead with mom that its for the sake of her grandkids, find other family or friends to help you out for a SHORT time. Just get out before it gets worse! And it will get worse, i can tell you yhat much from experience. Alot worse. Look up borderline personality disorder, im curious how many criteria she meets... sounds ALOT like my ex.