(06-11-2011, 12:50 PM)bryony Wrote: (06-11-2011, 08:24 AM)dargona Wrote: Your COGIATI result value is:
170
Which means that you fall within the following category:
COGIATI classification FOUR, PROBABLE TRANSSEXUAL
This is a little higher than i expected but ive condidered myself more on the feminine side anyways.. this was interesting at least 
There's an awful lot of subjectivity, and a lot of "it depends" which I think could skew results.
E.g. the one about a meeting of blokes and at the end "time for group hugs". There is no mention of how well you know these people, so my answer was less enthusiastic than if I did know them. I _always_ hug a male acquaintance whom I have not seen for a while, and I would be more than happy to group hug a work team that I had known for a while, but much less so if at all with strangers. I'm guessing that would apply to GGs as well.
Still, better than nothing I suppose!
B.
Yeah, similar issues here...
But you need to start somewhere!
For me? I'm (a) NOT a touchy-feely type. I don't hug much, period. Don't like people close to me, physically - it puts me at risk. Having been assaulted, I'm a little jumpy about this...
(b) See women as the touchy-feely, and men are SUPPOSED to be stand-offish. In fact, that's part of my issues: as a masculine person, I cannot have much closeness with others. As a feminine person, I could. More bonding, more emotion (other than rage and hate). And more ego boost, too, and lots of forgiveness when I have an off day. Just hormones or bad hair, right?
Maybe that's also why I take issue with women in many ways? They are so freely forgiven, but for men, the question is always, "What have you done for me lately?"
Even if you saved her life 5 seconds prior, "What difference does it make now anyway?"
Hard to attribute anything positive to such creatures...
Here we are killing ourselves to be feminine, to be beautiful, and... Those BORN with the ability to do so, seem hell-bent on being as MASCULINE (aggressive, rigid, stubborn, pig-headed, loud, controlling) as possible.
Very unfair....
-Dianna