(28-12-2011, 01:06 PM)chrishoney Wrote: (26-12-2011, 11:41 PM)bryony Wrote: (26-12-2011, 07:19 PM)joniec19 Wrote: Would anyone know of any health concerns while taking PM?
Thanks
My only worry is it can make people who thought they would be happy with breasts, and who have a fulfilling penetrative sexual relationship, want to go for full gender reassignment. A mental health risk, if you will!
B.
Ok, this is my pet peeve, but I find this OFTEN repeated guess very misleading. I don't think PM "makes" people think or believe ANYTHING that isn't/wasn't already within them to begin with.
You don't "think"? So that negates my opinions? Sorry, are you the arbiter of correctness?
Quote: It is misleading in the extreme to keep repeating this when it is merely one person's personal bias against late transitioning MtF transexuals.
My "bias" (such a provocative word), is against people who have been happily using their penises with a woman for decades, to satisfy them and produce children, suddenly becoming "disgusted" with them. The only way that is going to happen is by altering the conditions under which they were happy with them, either by altering their mental state, erection capability or both.
Quote:I am not going to get into a fight with you about your views or my opinions,
Too late for that, I'm afraid.
Quote: but I for one wish you would stop spouting this nonsense as if it were fact. PM, nor any other substance one can ingest, cannot make you do or become something against your will. Even taking estrogen won't "make" you transition, so how can a phytoestrogen? Please stop spreading falsehoods.
I've never read such a pompous diatribe in my life. How many people have committed suicide or murdered while under the influence of a mind-altering drug?
I know for a
fact that PM is a mind altering drug!
The only reason that I am still taking it, with breasts growing every day, probably larger than I ever wanted, is because it has cured my sub-clinical depression. That, I am afraid, is mind-altering.
You may call it a guess, but I'm only repeating what I have seen happen on this very board.
You can use this board's own search system to go through the postings of user beverley.rose. Read them all in chronological order. I also have personal messages with additional evidence that I have been asked not to share.
I'm accepting what she said in good faith. If you have a problem with falsehoods, you have them with Beverley, not me.
If you want me to take the trouble to sift through them and give dates and quotes I will, but I do find the whole thing rather painful.
As for "spreading falsehoods", you seem to be taking it upon yourself to be the arbiter of truth and false, when, to be fair, you are simply stating your opinion.
As a medium-term user of PM at a fairly high dose, I am well aware of the way that it suppresses the male drive. Without the regular stimulation of erection and the resultant concentration of sexual satisfaction by breast stimulation, I don't find it hard at all to imagine a scenario where, if I did not have a valued marital sexual relationship, I would be happy to have my internal organs reorganised to be more like a woman. That's one of the reasons why I take Butea Superba and breaks from PM -
because I recognise the dangers in myself!
I really don't think you are speaking from any kind of recognisable experience, or, if you are, you prefer to keep it to yourself while tramping on those of others. I have seen you state elsewhere that you are divorced.
Whatever your opinions are on "late transitioning MtF transexuals" they are very likely coloured by the fact that you have no "skin in the game".
Thus, I really don't think you are best placed to speak from experience or empathy.
If you don't
like what I say, fine, I'm happy with that, but I'm not happy with ad-hom attacks.
Unless you can prove what
you say, your opinion is no better than mine, I'm sorry to say.
My concern, as ever, is for the GG. The wife who has sacrificed the normality of the relationship for the mental well-being of her husband, and the loss of a heterosexual physical relationship driven by what is essentially a whim, given that all forms of transition are a masquerade of sorts. I'm not going to repeat what I said before, but the late genital transition of a married father is to me the supreme act of selfishness and misogyny, and I strongly believe that this desire is accelerated by ingestion of estrogen and estrogen-mimics.
If you want to call that a bias, then fine. BUT, it is a bias formed by empirical observation, NOT bigotry or prejudice.
My perception is that most of the people on this board are people with wives/partners, and many if not most have used their penises quite effectively in the past to have children.
My overwhelming concern is that in their compulsive desire, which I well understand, to feminise as much as possible, they neglect the partner who has supported them thus far.
I don't believe that I am doing the wrong thing in alerting them to the dangers of destroying that relationship. Possibly as the victim of a failed relationship, you are allowing your cynicism to colour what I am attempting to do. "Misery loves company" perhaps?
Since there are no experts on here (I know you have some kind of medical degree, but I have no idea if that makes you an expert), people are asking for
opinions. I find it rather tiring to precede everything I say with "in my opinion", but if it will make you happy, then I will say that this is my opinion, but I happen to feel that it is a valid opinion until you can utterly disprove it.
I am trying to do the best I can for the women as well as the men; it often seems that men who want to become women care less about real women than they do about themselves.
My "warnings", such as they are will be largely ignored by m2Fs
without partners who are likely to suffer. I don't see why you should disparage my attempts to help the others.
Try to avoid being a troll, eh?
B.