It's YOUR body!! If YOU want to grow tits or become a woman, you should need NOBODY else's say in the matter!! If you want to stay miserable the rest of your life, continue what you're doing now: allowing others to manipulate YOUR choices for YOUR life/body!! If you want to be completely happy, do what you must to YOUR body to make that happen!!
I simply don't see how it's ANYBODY else's business what YOU do with YOUR body/life...unless you're planning on severely harming yourself or killing yourself.
Yeah, I know, tattoos or piercings are supposedly a completely different thing, but, really, they're not! They're BOTH body modification. So, why is it they can get them without checking with other people around them, but YOUR chosen form of body modification: growing tits or getting a sex change HAS to be checked with EVERYONE you know before you can even THINK about making it happen?? THEY are happy upon getting their new tattoo or piercing! If everyone they knew FORCED them NOT to get them, they WOULDN'T be happy about it!
Live and LET live!! Personally, I can't, for the life of me, understand or support the attraction of people getting tattoos or piercings, but, it's not MY body, it's THEIR'S! However, if someone gets one and I see people belittling them for it, I WILL stand up for their right to have them!!