(30-12-2023, 10:49 PM)Beth14 Wrote: Yes. I think you are right. Dark patterned shirts are the way to go. Would love to hear some stories. There must be some good ones.
I present male so I don’t look forward to summer so much these days. I would love to be wearing much nicer styles, but in recent years they my summer shirts don’t seem to fit me so well! My go-to disguise is a pullover bra under a baggy, heavily patterned shirt. I hate pullover bras - not what I would choose, but the best I can manage in stealth mode.
With regular bras with metal adjusters the friendly but inquisitive hand on the shoulder lets you know you’ve been made - a shame that anybody needs to care what clothes other folk wear.