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I have a pool party to attend this afternoon. Several friends will be there. I will have my chest and armpits all shaved nicely. I know I will have that anxious moment when it is time to take my shirt off. I know my breasts will be on full display all day. It's a hot and I am sure all of the guys will be topless in or out of the pool. I know getting out of the pool my nipples are going to get really hard are very noticeable. All of this sounds very embarrassing, but I am really looking forward to it. This summer I have learned to relax and enjoy flaunting my breasts in hope people notice. I found out this morning a friend that covered his eyes and commented on my breasts the only time he has seen me without a shirt will be there today. I feel like he will comment again. Only this time other friends will be around. Last time I froze, I need to come with a better response.
But the other side of my brain is telling me I need to think about the etiquette females follow with their breasts. Maybe swimming is fine topless for me, but maybe when we are sitting around outside the pool, I should cover up my breasts. But that doesn't sound very fun.
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22-07-2024, 09:00 PM
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(20-07-2024, 04:09 PM)PerkyAcups Wrote: Maybe swimming is fine topless for me, but maybe when we are sitting around outside the pool, I should cover up my breasts. But that doesn't sound very fun.
How did it go?
I have no shame in going topless, but my wife thinks my chest and nipples are obvious enough that I should cover up. She gave me one of her swim covers half joking while we were at the beach. I think she was surprised I actually put it on. I present as male, so I get more people staring more than just being topless.
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(22-07-2024, 09:00 PM)I have no shame in going topless, but my wife thinks my chest and nipples are obvious enough that I should cover up. She gave me one of her swim covers half joking while we were at the beach. I think she was surprised I actually put it on. I present as male, so I get more people staring more than just being topless. Wrote: I think the cover up is cute and I would wear that in a heartbeat if offered to me…. Even in jest!
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Me too
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How did it go? I suspect many of your male friends secretly admired and even envied you for your breasts.
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The party was great. Around 10 couples. We didn't spend much time in the pool. Mostly hanging out around the pool drinking beer. I went topless the entire time. I felt a little exposed but was comfortable. Most of the guys there were overweight and had some hairy manboobs. Some had big areolas. I was a little jealous of those. But I am not overweight. And my chest is hairless with large nipples. I was enjoying feeling exposed.
No one made any comments. My belief is very few people would actually make a comment directly to me. But quite possible on the ride home while the couple is talking about the events of the party one of them says something like, Perky looks like he has breasts. Then that leads to a whole conversation about it. That is my theory. This probably mostly happens amongst friends. Strangers probably don't pay enough attention to warrant a future conversation.
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Thanks for the report. Great that you felt comfortable showing your breasts the whole time. Good to remember half of adult males have gynecomastia.
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It does not make sense to go to all the trouble to get some nice breasts and then go out of our way to hide them. Why get them if a person is trying to keep them hidden ? Women sure do not want to hide them they flaunt them in us guys faces.
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Vocabulary lesson of the day. Demurity.
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Perk, as a pumper I often, because I choose to, go into work with inflated breasts. Porn star level inflated boobs for my frame. I've seen eyes dip. Even today wearing the bralette I recommended to you. I can tell you that, unequivocally, those who matter don't mind, and those who mind don't matter. People who have known me over a year and now I have undeniable boobs say nothing. Even after going through my last 20 of my 100 lbs of weight loss. If you treat your breasts as usual in your life, so will everyone else. The same as someone carrying a clipboard and a vest, looking like they're looking at the electrical work will be dismissed by the majority. I know it's hard. We notice the change. We're self-respective. We're self-conscious. There's a pang of pain and a bell tone of the realization of how little people pay attention to us vs how we perceive ourselves and how much they pay attention.
