[DruLactin]

Be careful what you wish for, because it has not gone unnoticed by many longtime members what a dumpster fire this website is becoming. Constantly arguing about politics and complaining that they can't jerk-off in other people's threads.

I stay extremely saddened how the contributions of Lara & Lotus to this forum are ignored & discounted in favor of subjects like this.

Truth. Hard Biting Truth

[Heaven's Night]

The quality of posts has taken a steep nose dive lately, and attitudes have gone so much worse. This process has been on going for about a year or so? Before that the garbage posts weren't as numerous... Why is that? Why are there members here who are being openly transphobic? They feel encouraged to bring out bigotry now that they have "official license" to do so?

Shitting on the forum with bullshit threads like this, typing it with one hand, than accusing me of having axe to grind, for being misandrist, calling trans women "males" and I'm the bad one here? Mind you that also Lotus and bunch of other regulars agree with me on every point I've made about this garbage being posted. I repeat, this thread serves no purpose, other than bringing out the narrow minded idiocy of pervy wanker bigots on the forum... Maybe that's the point? Shed light on those fuckwits who ruin things for everbody.

Calling me angry is also kinda stupid, these are things that we're supposed to be angry about, I will be when I'm treated like shit for no reason. I can see what this rhetoric is, angry unhinged hysterical feminist has to shut up. Funny how in almost same sentence I might be called a "male" but then be treated as a woman. When a woman speaks out and is pissed off, she's angry, unhinged and hysterical with a hint of it being a mental illness. But when it suits these idiots, I become a "biological male" or something. I've seen this pattern endless times, I bet all trans women have. Do I have to mind you that I'm intersex, so calling me male is bullshit on more than one level.

And finally, as Stevenator said, emphasis and idea of this forum has always been in the breast growing science and experimentation and discussion about new methods to do so. That's the whole idea, not making someone's pp hard.

I think I've repeated myself enough.

[prostatenipple]

The thing is, I tried to be nice and pleasant and inclusive, when I said "for males (which automatically includes trans)".
I even tried to explain the terminology I used, so that it IS all-inclusive. I even did that with a lot of sensitivity that I might get the wording wrong.

I wonder if I might be the bad-person here. I'm sorry to the whole community if that is the reality.
One of the things people learn about me in real-life is that I am one of the people that never wants to cause offense or upset other people.

What I think we all need to stand up against is the rude abusive language used on the forum.
Calling someone else "transphobic" when they clearly are not, is disgusting.

NO ONE is trying to make anyone's "pp" hard here. The one or two posts I saw, it seemed like someone was posting about their past experience about something, isn't that the same when another member (not going to name them) wrote multiple posts about their life and what they realized made them want NBE etc?

For some people, growing their own breasts, and all the associated aspects, is a bit of a fetish. There's nothing wrong with that. Why can't we be more accepting?

As I said in the earlier post in this thread, people who take sexual pleasure in other's posts here should have the post deleted, possibly the account banned.

Isn't that what you also want?
Why are you being so difficult here?
All the swearing, rudeness, attacking other members, misinterpreting what other people write. WHY?
Aren't we mostly on the same page? (except the misandry, and apparently people being "transphobic" which is not accurate)


Why is it so hard to reply to sexual posts with "Sorry, we don't allow sexualized fetishism here. Your post will be deleted. Please be aware that your account could get banned in the future if you continue to make such posts"?

Isn't that so much better? No more misandry, no more rudeness, no more swearing, no more drama, no more people getting hurt.
Why can't you do that?

[prostatenipple]

What exactly is being argued here? Who can use the dictionary the best? What exactly are the two camps? Those who do & those who don't want to see forum posts that are ladened with innuendo and fantasy?

Because the ones arguing in favor for being able to continue to make fantasy posts of a sexual nature are relentless in their quest to constantly argue to continue to do so. Why?

I've not seen those posts from muzzling perverts.
Would be useful to have a list of a few posts to refer to.

All that I think I see is attacks on people that consider NBE to be a fetish for them (while they are trying to grow breasts).
What I mean to say, is that it doesn't appear to be external people (those not participating in NBE), but rather those that are growing breasts themselves.
Those that don't want fetishism, seem (at least to me) those that want to fully transition / have transitioned, and are doing it for more serious reasons. (not that I can speak about others motivations either)

Perhaps that's where the split comes from?
An ideological split where some members are doing it for just a bit of fun to get some extra benefits, and some members that are doing it because it's part of their identity?

BN historically has been a science based website with its approach to breast growth. Now it's flooded with post after post and thread after thread complaining about muzzling perverts.

True, however it doesn't mean there isn't an overlap into other related subjects. The whole "Males Staying Male" area for example, isn't simply about the science of breast growth.

Be careful what you wish for, because it has not gone unnoticed by many longtime members what a dumpster fire this website is becoming. Constantly arguing about politics and complaining that they can't jerk-off in other people's threads.

What's the moderation team's size and capability? Do we need more moderation perhaps?

I stay extremely saddened how the contributions of Lara & Lotus to this forum are ignored & discounted in favor of subjects like this.

Their posts are incredibly useful and they provide some of the best posts. I don't recall any issues with their posts with rudeness etc.
It's a gold mine of information, and experiences. Not wishing to criticize at all, I'm curious if members find some of the threads far too long, so they skip the threads (the Project X (hrt) thread for example is 505 pages long)?

[Heaven's Night]

What a gobshite.

I am not a "male" by any definition of the word. I am intersex. And transitioning. What does that make me? Not a male, thats damn sure.  Also, trans women are not "male" either, they never were and especially they're not once they're doing a medical transition as what does it change, sex characteristics. Trans women are women, not "biological males" as they're actively changing their biology of all things. Why am I doing this? Its like educating a pile of dogpoo about sex characteristics. 

its funny, the misandry thing. I have no idea where that shit is coming from. From how I call out creepy pervy men who infest a lot of websites? How about all those creeps who have treated me poorly, downplayed, belittled, called names, been transphobic and so on? How about that one guy who nearly raped me? Actually that was rape, only thing that was missing was all out violence, except that pinning me down and not stopping when I told him to is violence. How about the "friend" who used my vulnerability, forced himself on me, coersed me to sex all while claiming zero bad conscience about cheating on his wife and not giving a shit what his daughter might feel if they separated? Which I could do with one phone call, but I'm protecting their kid.

The list goes on, if bad experience about men makes me a "man hater", then I suggest you fucking idiot think about your own morals. There's no anger like woman scorn, think about it, do I have any reasons to be angry at pervy men? Do I?

Have I ever hated all men? Never, but I do absolutely fucking hate those who have hurt me. This is going way too personal, I'm not supposed to share all this, nor even reply this dumb ass thread any more

The misandry bullshit is just that, load of made up BS to paint me somehow a bad person. First call me a man and then call me a man hater when I don't like being called something I'm not. And the fetish crap, the drooly steamy wank posts? What does that contribute to the forum? Somebody show me the value of such posts and I'll applaud and give you a cookie. Those posts are worthless and annoying almost without exception, why do people insist we need that here when there are dozens of other internet oulets for hotrny posting? This is of course a rhetorical question, like a lot of questions I made, no need to answer, the answers would be totally uselessly pathetic anyway. 

What comes to contrubion on the forum, who's posting the most valuable stuff here? I can name names very quickly and none are those who type with one hand while thinking with one brain cell.

[prostatenipple]

... removed portion above...

Surely the remit of this forum is for biological males (which automatically includes mtf trans (*1) ) who are trying to grow breasts? And therefore anyone else that is considering it, as a future step they might or are planning to take.

Biological females trying to grow or increase breasts are covered in our sister forum, Breast Nexus, but are as always welcome.

Caveat *1:
   I don't know what the acceptable term is nowadays, because the whole LGBTQ+ area feels fractured. No one appears to be happy to define one specific overarching term for born males that are {transitioning to, feeling like they are, yet-to-transition to being, already transitioned to being, exploring being} female gender. So.... when I used "mtf trans", I do so with absolutely no offense intended. I just don't know what the accepted term is nowadays. The fact that I have to explain myself, like I am using a lawyer to help me, is a bit silly. The recent UK law ruling from yesterday highlights the very dynamic nature of all this sadly.

What a gobshite.

I am not a "male" by any definition of the word. I am intersex. And transitioning. What does that make me? Not a male, thats damn sure.  Also, trans women are not "male" either, they never were and especially they're not once they're doing a medical transition as what does it change, sex characteristics. Trans women are women, not "biological males" as they're actively changing their biology of all things. Why am I doing this? Its like educating a pile of dogpoo about sex characteristics. 

Then why are you so RUDE to anyone that makes a mistake?!

Instead of using reason and politeness, you berate members of this forum.

I couldn't find the site rules, however I did find this:

Rule 1 - Don't be a dick.

Trolling, being abusive, defending those that abuse and or troll in the name of free speech or their narcissism, and just generally being an ass violates rue 1. Have a nice life Bunnie.

https://www.breastnexum.com/showthread.php?tid=30917&pid=221124#pid221124

[prostatenipple]

We need clarity on Breast Nexus vs Breast Nexum.

Breast Nexus (genetic female site) is down?
https://www.breastnexum.com/showthread.php?tid=31902&highlight=breast+nexum+vs+breast+nexus

Breast Nexus vs Breast Nexum
https://www.breastnexum.com/showthread.php?tid=29923&highlight=breast+nexum+vs+breast+nexus

Where Stevenator said "So they made a separate website for bio genetic males."

BreastNexus and BreastNexum are Binary
https://www.breastnexum.com/showthread.php?tid=29396&page=2&highlight=breast+nexum+vs+breast+nexus

seems to be the consensus also that Nexum is for genetic males, but also open to all.

Are males staying male being scared away from this site?
https://www.breastnexum.com/showthread.php?tid=27898&pid=199517#pid199517

Lotus says:

"The forum is open to genetic males seeking breast growth, this means if you're straight/bi/trans/intersex/cd/gender fluid, etc seeking breast growth you are welcome to join (or lurk) if you so choose. TG/TS has been part of B-NEXUM since its inception, if this offends anyone you are free to go elsewhere."