Michelle, you mentioned that you were experiencing a high degree of stress recently. I've found that when I run into an unusually high stressful event (e.g., my recent illness), I revert to my male personality rather strongly, and my female personality sinks into the background to the point that it seems like she doesn't exist. Of course, I know better...hee hee. You made the observation awhile back that we have similar split-gender makeups, and if so, maybe you react to stress the same way as I. Also, I don't think you can use PM like a Valium tablet to treat stress on short notice. I'm pretty sure there's a delay for the effect of increasing your PM dosage to be felt.
BTW, since you are trying to avoid breast growth as much as possible, have you considered reducing your PM dosage and adding an anti-androgen? It may be that you are suffering from too much T in your system, so it might be best to treat that directly. Have you ever had your T level tested?
I'm glad you decided to stay in the family, Michelle. You're still one of us!
Clara