Ok, Since I asked the question. I'll start. (I still want to hear from everybody else. I am curious as to your responses.) I have always been overweight. These last few years I have had ,technically, a set of aa moobs. So I have a little time , I think, before people will notice any development. Then there might be some confusion on their part as to how I looked before.
Depending on how large I end up going ,something may be said or asked. May have to wear a sports bra eventually. They jiggle a little more now the they used to. Do to the restructuring going on. I probably will go with the medical issue reason. Could be early anapause. After all it is a hormonal imbalance. Just one I caused. I did start taking saw palmetto for my hair loss and prostate. The fenugreek is to help keep my blood sugar lower due to my diabetes. As to family and friends I will probably say the same and assure them it is nothing seriously wrong. So nothing to be concerned with. It is my body, my reasons. The real reasons they couldn't easily accept anyway. Where I live is deeply Southern Baptist and SBC have taken a strong stance against the LGBT community. I was Southern Baptist born and raised. I do not agree or support this aspect of their faith. But, I digress. All and all, I feel like it is my business and no one else’s. I won't directly lie, but like elves or mimbari, will not tell the whole truth. Most people don't want the truth anyway. Just what will fit into their worldview and be acceptable to them. In my line of work it shouldn't be problem as does not affect my job. I believe the people I work with won't care anyway. Time will tell on this one. As to who ,in my personal day to day life, I will tell the real reasons .. Well..I have some trust issues. So it will only be someone I have carefully felt out one the subject before bringing it up. Though, Soimetimes, life puts you into a position where you just have to jump into the deap end and hope you don't drown.
Maybe more thoughts later. What do the rest of you think? Give a reason? Or not? Say something in advance as to a medical condition? Or not?
Happy Journey's and best wishes.
andy
Sorry for pulling this thead earlier. I had my reasons. This time I will leave it up.
Depending on how large I end up going ,something may be said or asked. May have to wear a sports bra eventually. They jiggle a little more now the they used to. Do to the restructuring going on. I probably will go with the medical issue reason. Could be early anapause. After all it is a hormonal imbalance. Just one I caused. I did start taking saw palmetto for my hair loss and prostate. The fenugreek is to help keep my blood sugar lower due to my diabetes. As to family and friends I will probably say the same and assure them it is nothing seriously wrong. So nothing to be concerned with. It is my body, my reasons. The real reasons they couldn't easily accept anyway. Where I live is deeply Southern Baptist and SBC have taken a strong stance against the LGBT community. I was Southern Baptist born and raised. I do not agree or support this aspect of their faith. But, I digress. All and all, I feel like it is my business and no one else’s. I won't directly lie, but like elves or mimbari, will not tell the whole truth. Most people don't want the truth anyway. Just what will fit into their worldview and be acceptable to them. In my line of work it shouldn't be problem as does not affect my job. I believe the people I work with won't care anyway. Time will tell on this one. As to who ,in my personal day to day life, I will tell the real reasons .. Well..I have some trust issues. So it will only be someone I have carefully felt out one the subject before bringing it up. Though, Soimetimes, life puts you into a position where you just have to jump into the deap end and hope you don't drown.
Maybe more thoughts later. What do the rest of you think? Give a reason? Or not? Say something in advance as to a medical condition? Or not?
Happy Journey's and best wishes.
andy
Sorry for pulling this thead earlier. I had my reasons. This time I will leave it up.