[Samantha Rogers]

Sarah had to look up what TLDR meant. She's a little insulted by the insinuation that she can't be bothered to read anything past a few paragraphs, so buckle up for some bluntness.

LOL, It was Too Long but I Did Read it. Seems like a bunch of personally relevant psychobabble to me. The how and whys behind why I am the person I am ceased to interest me long ago, and I'm happier for it....but everyone's different, so maybe it'll yield some constructive answers for you(and others). To me, it just doesn't matter anymore. My gender issues predate any perceived trauma. I am who I am, and searching for the ever-elusive "cause" only seems to imply there's a problem with who I am. Kinda the reason I steered clear of the Mother thread. Always been the type of person who believes that finding out the motive or reason why(if there even is one) doesn't change the result. So why bother?

Hehehe, I still love ya though.

Yeah, sis, I know, and it wasn't meant to offend anyone, though I can see how it might, now. Still, just my rambling trying to come to terms with what I am going through. To me, I do want to understand the why, because it does in my mind, right now, affect so much else. But I also understand your point. We all deal with things according to our own immediate needs I guess.
Besides, you were exactly who I was thinking about when I said the bit about those to whom nature played a dirty trick placing them in the wrong body. For many of us, the answer is not so simple or straightforward.
What works for me is different than what works for you.
"Psychobabble" hurts a little though...ouch.
Hugs