I want to expand on parts of what Sammie and Sarah wrote. And I'm sorry, Sarah, for being a little abstract in my comments. I guess I do tend to be an egghead. 
I find it very hard to attribute motives to why people act the way they do. Certainly, people think and act according to what they value. Everyone tends to find role models that they try to emulate. A stereotype is nothing more than a template for how to think, behave, and judge others according to some set of standards, good or bad. In the end, unless coerced, we all act the way we act because we are the way we are.
Very few men come here to learn how to grow breasts if they are comfortable in their male skin. Those of us who are not, but have suppressed our feminine nature all our lives are really at a loss to know how to look and act more feminine from instinct. I dare say even girls have to learn how to be girls according to the template that the culture has established.
We look for models of feminine behavior to emulate. Our perceptions of femininity are surely distorted looking through the eyes of a male, but we do the best we can. At the outset, we miss the mark badly, focusing on the most visible attributes of our stereotypical ideal woman. In time, we come to see what is real and permanent. It's a gradual process.
I have to laugh at myself with all the attention I'm giving to forcing my testosterone sculpted face and body into an image of femininity that is impossible for me to achieve. Yet my very feminine wife will say things like, "Wow! You look better than I have for years." She's just being kind, right? Probably. But, for me, at this moment, a great figure, beautiful clothes, and a total makeover is my template for being a woman. That's my model of femininity despite finding few woman that measure up to that stereotype in daily life. So am I a misguided fool? Am I just a horny male with a boob fetish?
Many will enroll in BreastNexus college with dreams that are based on a distorted view of what being feminine is about. Many will become disillusioned and drop out when the fog clears. Those that continue on will do so because whatever their concept of femininity is, they found value in its realization -- its expression -- in their lives. Who can judge whether one person's stereotype is better or worse than another's.
Everyone here should be given an equal measure of respect as to their motives, acceptance of their methods, and all the encouragement they need to achieve whatever goal they set for themselves.
Hugs to all,
Clara
I find it very hard to attribute motives to why people act the way they do. Certainly, people think and act according to what they value. Everyone tends to find role models that they try to emulate. A stereotype is nothing more than a template for how to think, behave, and judge others according to some set of standards, good or bad. In the end, unless coerced, we all act the way we act because we are the way we are.
Very few men come here to learn how to grow breasts if they are comfortable in their male skin. Those of us who are not, but have suppressed our feminine nature all our lives are really at a loss to know how to look and act more feminine from instinct. I dare say even girls have to learn how to be girls according to the template that the culture has established.
We look for models of feminine behavior to emulate. Our perceptions of femininity are surely distorted looking through the eyes of a male, but we do the best we can. At the outset, we miss the mark badly, focusing on the most visible attributes of our stereotypical ideal woman. In time, we come to see what is real and permanent. It's a gradual process.
I have to laugh at myself with all the attention I'm giving to forcing my testosterone sculpted face and body into an image of femininity that is impossible for me to achieve. Yet my very feminine wife will say things like, "Wow! You look better than I have for years." She's just being kind, right? Probably. But, for me, at this moment, a great figure, beautiful clothes, and a total makeover is my template for being a woman. That's my model of femininity despite finding few woman that measure up to that stereotype in daily life. So am I a misguided fool? Am I just a horny male with a boob fetish?
Many will enroll in BreastNexus college with dreams that are based on a distorted view of what being feminine is about. Many will become disillusioned and drop out when the fog clears. Those that continue on will do so because whatever their concept of femininity is, they found value in its realization -- its expression -- in their lives. Who can judge whether one person's stereotype is better or worse than another's.
Everyone here should be given an equal measure of respect as to their motives, acceptance of their methods, and all the encouragement they need to achieve whatever goal they set for themselves.
Hugs to all,
Clara