[Samantha Rogers]

Kari, you are somewhat the exception when it comes to revealing your face on this forum in full man mode. The others that do are made up femme for their picture -- Patti, Heather, Sarah, Karren, Anna, and others. Your avatar picture is very small and grainy, so it's not easily made out. But from what I can see, you would look pretty darn nice in makeup and a wig. Why not give it a try and post on the Fashion Show thread. Sarah will love you and so will I.

Sammie has convinced me to give make up a try, so..... Well, let's just say don't hold your breath. You know, the way I look at it is, sure, I'll never be able to present an acceptable image to the world, and I don't plan to, but it's still a lot of fun expressing my fem side with real props.

Gender identity is something you are born with. It can't be altered significantly. Those of us with a feminine gender identity, even a small part of one, need a way to express it. There's no best way to do that. Crossdressing for me is tremendously satisfying that way. There's no shame, no guilt, and no one is getting hurt as long as my wife is okay with the money I'm spending. And there is a positive to it, as well. I'm much more attentive to my weight and general appearance. I guess that's another feminine stereotype that I've fallen for, but look at the bright side: I'm still good at science and math!

Clara

You know, Clara, don't sell yourself short. Sometime, for grins, go over and set up an account at crossdressers.com. After you post a few times you can view the pictures. There are some amazingly gorgeous girls there, just as old as you and I and older. Heck, look how stunning Karren is, and she's only a few years behind me! (PS - I would die to look as good as you, Karren!) You will be amazed what time, practice and a few "tricks" can do. Really. Totally amazed.
But study up....hee hee... can you hear Atlanta calling?