[GoneGirl]

Thanks for the support, Sammie. It's like you said: "the trick is trying to find a balance ... [to stabilize] the swinging pendulum in a position that allows sufficient satisfaction to both parts." My rational minds tell me you're right, but my emotions always have the final say, it seems. LOL

So, how do I know when the right balance has been achieved? Is it when I find that the pendulum has stopped swing? That is, when I no longer distinguish between my male and female personalities?

I could increase my PM dosage to see if the ambiguity clears up.

Clara