08-03-2014, 09:42 PM
(This post was last modified: 08-03-2014, 09:45 PM by SarahSchilling.)
(08-03-2014, 09:38 PM)ClaraKay Wrote: Oh come on now. Just because we all have strong female identities and are attracted to females sexually, doesn't mean that men are worthless. I don't hate the male side of my gender. Men and women each have their place in the world, and I think the two sexes have been complementary and essential in the survival of the species over the eons. As the French say: "Viva la difference!"
A man's greater strength may not be as important today with the labor saving technologies we have, but my wife still calls on me to do the heavy lifting...although I don't know how long that will last ...LOL!
Woman on average are more intelligent than men, but that intelligence is distributed normally with a smaller variance than men's. So you see more really stupid men, but also a lot of really brilliant ones. Testosterone is nature's performance enhancing drug. It enhances a man's physical, mental, and motivational (aggressive) qualities.
As far as lack of empathy, nurturing instinct, etc., I believe a child needs both the unconditional love of a mother as well as the firm hand of a father to grow up well-balanced. Many of the problems we see in our society today result from fatherless homes.
We don't have to put down men to justify our not being as manly as other men.
(An after thought)
Kari Leigh, was this question posed tongue in cheek? If so, sorry for the rant.
Just my 2 cents.
Clara
All that, and I don't see a specific positive trait aside from strength

And I grew up just fine without a coherent father for the most part....well...fine enough lol.
I totally hate guys in general, and especially the concept of masculinity....and its not because I think I have to in order to justify my own existence. My experiences with men thus far in life have led me to this view. So yeah, I'm biased. To each their own as always, though.


