[GoneGirl]

Clara, what you describe is quite natural and very common among those who self identify as CD rather than TS or TG. Even Sammie has male days...lol.
It is all a matter of finding the balance that works for you. The swinging pendulum can become quite dizzying.
By the way, for what it is worth, you didnt seem bad last week at all...tee hee...if that was Clara being irritable, I think we are all safe.

I'm glad I didn't come off as boorish to you, Sammie.

Anyway, I think I know what you're saying, although I don't identify as a crossdresser, that is, someone who is a male-bodied, male-identified, heterosexual who dresses in women's clothing. Yes, I'm am all that, but I also identify as female, so that makes me TG.

Clara