18-03-2014, 01:45 PM
Honey, I don't think anyone can really help you with this. Many of us, I think, go through phases of desire in this, swinging from moments of outright full speed ahead assurance to moments of screaming WTF am I doing panic. Over time, hopefully, a pattern will emerge and you may find it linked to other factors...job, relationship, stress, feelings of self worth etc . People come into this from different places and for different reasons. Rare is the individual who is absolutely certain from the depth of their being that rearranging their physical body to match their gender identity is absolutely and unquestionably the only right course. Your own heart holds the answer for you.
But, yes, feelings of doubt from time to time are, I would say, perfectly normal if there is anything in what we are doing that can be considered normal in any way.
Listen to your heart.
This is not a race or a competition, but rather just one of many ways we work to try to find peace, acceptance and authenticity in who and what we are.
And no one here will judge you for whatever you do.
The one thing we all have in common here is a need to fill a hole of some kind...to find a way to somehow make ourselves right. You will find what works for you, sweetheart.
Hugs
But, yes, feelings of doubt from time to time are, I would say, perfectly normal if there is anything in what we are doing that can be considered normal in any way.
Listen to your heart.
This is not a race or a competition, but rather just one of many ways we work to try to find peace, acceptance and authenticity in who and what we are.
And no one here will judge you for whatever you do.
The one thing we all have in common here is a need to fill a hole of some kind...to find a way to somehow make ourselves right. You will find what works for you, sweetheart.
Hugs