[MichelleM]

Am I just particularly mixed up, or does this happen to others?

My two cents: no, I don't think you're particularly messed up, because I know this happens to others, including me in a sense just yesterday.

I think there are some folks who have few doubts along the way, but from what I've read here and my own limited experience, I think doubts at times are fairly common. Given what we're talking about (it's not like deciding what to have for dinner ), I don't think that should be a surprise, right?

And, as has been mentioned on other threads, the beautiful part of NBE is that *you* can adjust things whenever and however you like.

Does that help?

Michelle