[Marina Kits]

Kari,

From our private conversations, I know you want to be a dedicated and devoted father and husband to your family. Though you'll may not be able to fully embrace your feminine identity, I think you can still have a positive influence with your family even when you feel you're stuck with being in a masculine role.

Indeed I do as you have suggested. As long as I "have a pair" (and even if I didn't), I'd always feel a very strong compulsion to be the man in their lives to the very best of my ability and understanding. It's hard to explain how passionate I am about it but it is, literally, my highest earthly priority.

What has changed since the thread you referred to is a softening of my perception regarding what's masculine and what's feminine. I've made an adjustment in my thinking and decided whatever assortment of traits I possess is simply, what I have. I need to give no regard to which ones are "masculine" and which are "feminine".

Thanks for bringing this up again Flame. I would have added these comments to my previous thread but that one got kind of a bad reputation.