[Samantha Rogers]

Just a thought... I have noticed that regardless of how thick the "fog", if circumstances arise that require the male side, I never have a problem jumping right back into that mode. And I don't ever really worry about losing that ability. In my heart I know that both sides are me, and neither side will ever be gone regardless of how I am presenting. Of course, the female side is SO alluring now, but partly I expect this comes from so many years of denial. But what I think of as the male attributes will never be gone. The trick, as I have said many times, is to find a way to get the pendulum to stop swinging back and forth, wherever it stops being meaningless, so long as that place is one where I am comfortable, finally, and able to feel whole and authentic. Thats the key isn't it? To be able to reach a point where both sides are one.
I really hope we all find that place.