[SusanB]

I have to ask why your on a feminizing herb like PM if it bothers you to loose male function???

1. I like sex. Who doesn't?

2. One thing I've learned from reading so many personal stories here, is that while we all have a lot in common, we also have many differences in terms of what our motivations are and how far we're willing to go down this path.

On one of the spectrum, there are those of us who seem to be fully entrenched in guy mode, but have a fetish for breasts and enjoy having them, and at the other end are those of us who want to fully transition to be a female. And there is everything in between. You can say I'm in between. There are times I want nothing more than to be a woman, but more times than not, I'm quite content to be a man.

Plus as many others have mentioned, there are other factors at play such as family, friends and work. An visibly obvious sexual fetish could crush career advancement. More importantly, I love my wife and would never try to make her into a lesbian. I love my kids and would never make them go through life having to have the label of "freak" applied to their dad. Nor would I want to expose my parents or sibling to shame or ridicule. That's not to put down any of you with families who didn't make the same choice - we all have varying degrees of desire and sometimes you need to put yourself first. But for me, this isn't one of those situations.

As I've mentioned in other posts, I'm not looking to fully transition, or two grow a pair of breasts which I could never hide from others. Just wanted a little extra something to make "play time" and "dress up time" more fun and enjoyable. Plus I already have some nice sensations when my wife plays with what little I have and was hoping for some additional sensitivity.

3. Did I mention I like sex?
Why would I want to give that up? And for the few times my wife isn't up for a romp, a little self pleasuring is fun too. But lately, I give up before ever climaxing. It just takes too long and too much effort. That's no fun at all. And actual sex becomes nearly impossible if you can't sustain an erection.