[spanky (aka Lola)]

Flamesabres -

I cannot believe I did not see this before. I think the list is very helpful in characterizing the spectrum of possibilities. Thank you for putting it together!

I am sure there are a lot of nuances, combinations and variations. As for others, my own place on the list varies depending on the day, but I would say I generally fall between 4, 5 and 6. I might have moved to a lower number, but I really do not suffer a lot of sadness or anguish about it all. I am not sure what that means.

spanky