[undecided]

Hi everyone.

If your life had started on a different path and your bio-sex was female, do you think you would be cisgendered or not? In other words, do you see your dysphoria as being a direct consequence of being born a bio-male, or do you think it's simply an innate aspect of your nature to push the boundaries of gender so to speak?

I know this is all hypothetical, but I think I would be in the second group. I think this would especially be the case if I would still closely identify with being an ISTJ.

Your thoughts?

First group, at least thats what I would suspect, at-least, if my feelings were the same then as they are now. As others have mentioned, Tomboy, but one that could dress girly, girly when needed.

I actually have a sister, 6 years younger than I am, she was always trying to do whatever I was doing ( I`m talking of when we were both still kids ). She was, and still is very much a tomboy. I often wished she and I could have traded places. I always suspected she would have been happier as a boy, and I know I would have been happier as a girl.