08-05-2014, 02:03 AM
(29-04-2014, 12:59 PM)ClaraKay Wrote:(29-04-2014, 10:54 AM)Denita Wrote: I've always thought that sex was the greatest expression of love between two people and I simply can not see how you could do one without the other. Sex for me is also all about giving my partner as much pleasure as possible. I'm also a hopeless romantic.
I can relate to that today, Denita. It has been one of the most valuable outcomes of my taking PM. By lowering my T, I have lost the daily built up of sexual tension that used to demand release in one way or another. Now, sexual arousal is always a part of feeling love for, and being loved by, another. I believe this is more along the lines of the way most women experience love and sex.
Clara
I like to think that my wife would feel, if asked, that it express a similar attitude and approach to expressing affection through intimacy. You often hear wives say that they expect to have a male partner in the bedroom regardless of how we my present outside the bedroom. Recently, as my wife has come to a better understanding of my gender identification, she also understands that whether I present as male or female, intimacy for me is inherently an expression of my feminine nature. I like to believe it makes me a more attentive lover, much more attuned to her pleasure.


