11-05-2014, 03:38 PM
Hi Clara, for me it has to be No2 also, however, I am somewhat prepared just to say " I have a hormone problem and just accept it" . I have had a degree of gynecomastia for many years and until my breasts get really large I will get away with it.
My wife on the other hand is another story, she has commented that they seem to be growing, I chickened out and just laughed opposed to coming clean. I'm not proud of it bur I didn't want any more waves to rock the frail boat. She is not stupid and can be very formidable so I am trying the drip feed approach.
The drip feed approach has currently sparked clipped replies and tactical silences no matter how extra kind and thoughtful I am. Oh well, better luck next time.
I am really happy for you girls that have understanding wives and are willing to support your GD etc. my time will come but it is years away I suspect. Clara, I loved your 'Back to the future' analogy stepping back in time to transition. I would not hesitate for 1 microsecond ........dreaming I'm always dreaming !
Lots of love to you all.
Hugs
Heather X
My wife on the other hand is another story, she has commented that they seem to be growing, I chickened out and just laughed opposed to coming clean. I'm not proud of it bur I didn't want any more waves to rock the frail boat. She is not stupid and can be very formidable so I am trying the drip feed approach.
The drip feed approach has currently sparked clipped replies and tactical silences no matter how extra kind and thoughtful I am. Oh well, better luck next time.
I am really happy for you girls that have understanding wives and are willing to support your GD etc. my time will come but it is years away I suspect. Clara, I loved your 'Back to the future' analogy stepping back in time to transition. I would not hesitate for 1 microsecond ........dreaming I'm always dreaming !
Lots of love to you all.
Hugs
Heather X