[GoneGirl]

Heather, dear, please don't think you are a burden talking about this very emotional issue. The lack of acceptance by a close family member can cause a great deal of mental distress that only adds to the dysphoria we feel from our mixed gender identity.

I do think you are right about backing off for now. These things take time to resolve themselves. Pushing too aggressively can sometimes make matters worse.

I'm happy to hear that your one son (or was it son-in-law?) is fully accepting of your TG nature. That has to be a comfort to you.

Is there a TG organization nearby that you could join? I can't tell you how much satisfaction and mental clarity I received by joining such a support group here in Chicago and attending just the first meeting. Just to be around real people who are like me gender-wise is so reassuring.

Don't hesitate to PM me if you want to.

Hugs,
Clara