[SarahSchilling]

PM

Fuller lips
Softer skin
Slower breast growth
Some fat redistribution
Occasional headaches and digestive problems
Euphoria
More Empathetic
Thicker head hair/less body hair
Feeling sexy but with decreased function (the two things aren't really the same)

Estradiol

Softer, but much drier skin
Quicker breast growth
More fat redistribution (good for curves, bad for pooch)
Mood swings
Extreme empathy
Little sex drive and greatly decreased function

I've taken each for at least a year apiece and these are some of my observations. Some of them are probably just me, others are likely more universal. Also, the anti-androgens taken at the time likely play a factor into my perception of each. Mostly SP with the PM and androcur/spiro/fincar with the estradiol.