[Samantha Rogers]

Janet...it does help a lot to work with a good gender therapist. It gives you someone to help you sort things out. I say that because most of us with some kind of GID, whether we like it or not, has through the years developed other issues, often as a result of the GID but not always. Sometimes it helps to have the assistance of a professional to help identify and separate this issues so that they are not just one big clump of crap.That does not mean you or anyone does have other issues, just that in many cases there are, developed often in response to how we learned to cope with the anxiety of the GID.

Good luck with yours. I hope everything works out well !

Hugs

Sammie