[GoneGirl]

As far as trapping your wife goes, I think it's fair to say that most, if not all of us married TGs wanted to lead the life of a normal man, get married, start a family, etc. We most likely had little understanding of our gender identity confusion at the time. I can remember since quite young being told that all men have a feminine side and an inner child, but that we learn how to hide it, so I assumed the way I felt was normal, and certainly didn't preclude my pursuing a traditional family life. If I 'trapped' my wife into marriage, it wasn't with false pretenses. She understands that now. If any of this rings true for you, Janet, I would put the guilty feelings away.

Clara