[undecided]

Thanks Kari, your description pretty much sums up my feelings, as I mentioned to the wife, one step at a time. A psychologist hopefully will be able to help both of us through this period, but I feel I would be willing to try and bury this feeling again, for the sake of our marriage .... I think its safe to say, she has no issues with me being transgendered, but she does not want to go along for the ride( if that makes sense )