[AnnieBL]

Thanks Kari . sometimes having somebody else's input helps put things into a clearer perspective.

Does anyone know of another site were people like ourselves talk and communicate, a site were my wife could see other people are having similar problems and issues and maybe find more support. ?

I understand that crossdressers.com is such a site, including a wives and SOs section with facilities for private discussion, but I am still awaiting the opportunity to check it out more thoroughly.

I can also go along with pretty much everything that Kari says, except for us our religious beliefs are compromised, my hair is gone long beyond the point of no return, and our walks are not the same since the dog died. Giving each other the very best opportunity to exchange views is very important. My own DW yesterday had her first meeting with a counselor about her own problems with my GI and thought she was good, though not yet giving any actual advice - she has another appointment later this month.