[GoneGirl]

Yup, Told my DW about Breast Nexus and how to get to it. I invited her to read anything she wants there, and she has. When I came out to her, I felt it was important to promise from then on to be open and honest about my feelings, my goals, and my actions. No secrets. No hiding. She's seen every picture that I've posted on BN, too, and those of many other members, too. My postings raise questions from time to time, but I firmly believe that trust is critical in transitioning within a marriage, if it is to work. That means doing it as a team with consideration given to both party's feelings and needs. My thinking is that most objections from an SO are based on insecurities that cannot be neutralized if trust is absent.

Clara