15-07-2014, 12:49 AM
wow reading through this thread =( made me feel sad... it really breaks your heart to know all the suffering people go through in life.....be careful not letting fear become a phobic battle with reality
...self love, self acceptance are critical ..being honest and open is a good goal to aim for ...other peoples aggression and judgment towards you can be reasoned with but it' not always so easy...but your own self worth and strength is what is most important and to feel loved and accepted by another human being ....tooo!
....when you breaks things down and detach yourself from it all ...it isn't impossible ..to find happiness and get where you want to in life ..the fear of anger from others or judgment of others is a consuming battle that takes great self-insight and stability to overcome......what makes you a beautiful person is not the person you want to be but the person you are ..caring and loving those values are what I see as most important .. ......that is the person you deserve to be seen as because that is the only thing that matters ....so even when your afraid of the complications or the misunderstands of the world and people around you ..remember it's just their ignorance to what truly matters in life ..what really is beautiful..hold onto that ..to help take them less seriously so you know that you are a good person and anyone who thinks otherwise or judges you with hostility...that is there problem ..they are yet to see what truly matters but you know what matters so know it's possible for them to open their eyes and be more open-minded and accepting .....I'm glad there a supportive and nice people to look out for people on this forum ......I wish everyone the best and will be here for anyone who wants to talk (=.....<3 just remember your looking for peace, happiness and love and there are many ways to get it ...the goal can be to change fear itself with reassurance but also acceptance and strength there are always more than one way to fix a problem .......sorry I wanted to say something to make anyone here feel better ....I know I might not be much help ....so I just hope you all hurting here feel better ='(
...self love, self acceptance are critical ..being honest and open is a good goal to aim for ...other peoples aggression and judgment towards you can be reasoned with but it' not always so easy...but your own self worth and strength is what is most important and to feel loved and accepted by another human being ....tooo!
....when you breaks things down and detach yourself from it all ...it isn't impossible ..to find happiness and get where you want to in life ..the fear of anger from others or judgment of others is a consuming battle that takes great self-insight and stability to overcome......what makes you a beautiful person is not the person you want to be but the person you are ..caring and loving those values are what I see as most important .. ......that is the person you deserve to be seen as because that is the only thing that matters ....so even when your afraid of the complications or the misunderstands of the world and people around you ..remember it's just their ignorance to what truly matters in life ..what really is beautiful..hold onto that ..to help take them less seriously so you know that you are a good person and anyone who thinks otherwise or judges you with hostility...that is there problem ..they are yet to see what truly matters but you know what matters so know it's possible for them to open their eyes and be more open-minded and accepting .....I'm glad there a supportive and nice people to look out for people on this forum ......I wish everyone the best and will be here for anyone who wants to talk (=.....<3 just remember your looking for peace, happiness and love and there are many ways to get it ...the goal can be to change fear itself with reassurance but also acceptance and strength there are always more than one way to fix a problem .......sorry I wanted to say something to make anyone here feel better ....I know I might not be much help ....so I just hope you all hurting here feel better ='(