[MissC]

[...]because she seems to want to be the oldest living virgin!! As far as I know, she has NEVER had sex with her new parts! That's one of the FIRST things I'D try!!!!

One would think, right?

It's the elephant in the room that few are willing to discuss, but let's face facts -- unless you are completely asexual, have no drive, have never had sex in your life and don't plan to -- it's a factor.

The strangest scenario, to me, is the "straight man" planning to be a "straight woman" after SRS. That basically never happens. This is why you hear of so many "lesbian" couples of post-ops. But most end up asexual even if they weren't before.

The post-op who settles down in a relationship with a man, guaranteed, was attracted to and slept with men long before the operation. Men are clever creatures; we figured out how to have sexy good times without a nearby vagina at least several millenia ago. Hell, monkeys can have gay sex, so it probably wasn't rocket science to Cro-Magnon man. Bottom line here: if you're not attracted to men before SRS, you probably won't be after; if you are, then you're not letting lack of a vagina hold you back.

If you're bisexual, you already know you can go both ways with the equipment you've got. SRS can't improve on that. This is probably why I've never met a bisexual transsexual.

A sex change is one hell of an excuse to get a divorce if you no longer like your wife... and I can't imagine for the life of me why you'd throw away one you actually like... for a fantasy.

Because that's what happens. Hate on me all you like, but statistically, that describes at least some members of this forum, whether you know it yet or not, and all your vociferous protests to the contrary.