[SarahSchilling]

The only part I dont get is "who wants to have sex when your stuck with a penis anyway" ... While I WONT be penetrating anyone anytime soon I do love having sex now as a female more than I ever did as a "man"... I think its a major consideration for anyone really thinking about SRS... I mean who wants to be stuck without the ability to orgasm PERMANENTLY.... I guess I dont understand how someone could just totally ignore their bits and sexuality before having such a change made... For me anyway I need to know what sex with men as a woman is like before going under the knife

I don't consider being anally penetrated to be "sex with men as a woman", if that's what you mean. It's also not my thing lol.

So yeah, I am more than content to ignore my sexuality until after SRS( aside from self maintenance to retain the ability to climax). From everything I've read, having an orgasm after SRS is totally possible....not sure why you act like it's an absolute that one can't. I'll find out either way eventually! If I can't that's fine with me. Sex has always been really horrible and awkward to me anyways lol.

Anyway, no right and wrong here. Whatever you're comfortable with works for you! Personally, the thought of getting sexually intimate with anyone, male or female, with my current equipment literally makes me cry.

(I even teared up writing that last sentence. Fuck I hate this thing.)