Sorry I didnt mean to make you cry just adding my perspective to the discussion
We are all different even if similar in many ways...
While I dont "hate" mine I never really liked it much either
I do agree the male anatomy and the "back door" is a poor substitute for a VJ
I can tell you that when Im done and "broken in" I'll also be DONE with getting fucked the way I do now too
Fuck I dont think Id endure all that pain and spend all that $$$ only to use the wrong hole
Anyway what I meant was I think its really important to really know how your wired before making that kind of change...
As someone who has been all over the place on the spectrum you mentioned... As a male under the influence of T I'll admit there WAS a strong fetish aspect to it thats no longer there at all... That worries ME about going all the way to the other side I need to know I will be orgasmic afterwards not just think I will be... Of course there is no way to know beforehand... While its supposed to be a small percentage it does happen... Id think that would probably be much more likely with someone who wasnt really wired "female", who might really just enjoy the fetish aspect of being a "feminized male"... Im just saying you gotta know and if you even think you might be happy at all without getting surgery Id think one probably shouldnt do it... Nothing wrong with living full time as a female without surgery either and as you know there are many more TS women who do just that than the ones who do go all the way, whether its because of the $$$ involved or other reasons... Im sure there are some who are miserable like that, some indifferent, and some that like it.... Its an interesting topic to me
Of course things are different for me now than they were and Ive never felt better or been happier I do worry about that, just less and less as things progress...
It hasnt been long for me though, physical MtF feminization takes time, for some a LONG time.... For some like me there are also mental aspects that im realizing I need to work on
Im just saying things can be cloudy and not so clear in "the pink fog" and it can be a slippery slope!!! More so for those that DO have the $$$ to do whatever they want
I must admit though I do want GCS a lot I also know that as of today if the surgeon was standing there saying OK lets go... Id have to say no Im not ready YET
Just my two cents
We are all different even if similar in many ways...While I dont "hate" mine I never really liked it much either
I do agree the male anatomy and the "back door" is a poor substitute for a VJ
I can tell you that when Im done and "broken in" I'll also be DONE with getting fucked the way I do now too Fuck I dont think Id endure all that pain and spend all that $$$ only to use the wrong hole
Anyway what I meant was I think its really important to really know how your wired before making that kind of change...
As someone who has been all over the place on the spectrum you mentioned... As a male under the influence of T I'll admit there WAS a strong fetish aspect to it thats no longer there at all... That worries ME about going all the way to the other side
I need to know I will be orgasmic afterwards not just think I will be... Of course there is no way to know beforehand... While its supposed to be a small percentage it does happen... Id think that would probably be much more likely with someone who wasnt really wired "female", who might really just enjoy the fetish aspect of being a "feminized male"... Im just saying you gotta know and if you even think you might be happy at all without getting surgery Id think one probably shouldnt do it... Nothing wrong with living full time as a female without surgery either and as you know there are many more TS women who do just that than the ones who do go all the way, whether its because of the $$$ involved or other reasons... Im sure there are some who are miserable like that, some indifferent, and some that like it.... Its an interesting topic to me Of course things are different for me now than they were and Ive never felt better or been happier I do worry about that, just less and less as things progress...
It hasnt been long for me though, physical MtF feminization takes time, for some a LONG time.... For some like me there are also mental aspects that im realizing I need to work on
Im just saying things can be cloudy and not so clear in "the pink fog" and it can be a slippery slope!!! More so for those that DO have the $$$ to do whatever they want
I must admit though I do want GCS a lot I also know that as of today if the surgeon was standing there saying OK lets go... Id have to say no Im not ready YET
Just my two cents