[tanysquirrel]

I don't consider being anally penetrated to be "sex with men as a woman", if that's what you mean. It's also not my thing lol.

So yeah, I am more than content to ignore my sexuality until after SRS( aside from self maintenance to retain the ability to climax). From everything I've read, having an orgasm after SRS is totally possible....not sure why you act like it's an absolute that one can't. I'll find out either way eventually! If I can't that's fine with me. Sex has always been really horrible and awkward to me anyways lol.

Anyway, no right and wrong here. Whatever you're comfortable with works for you! Personally, the thought of getting sexually intimate with anyone, male or female, with my current equipment literally makes me cry.

(I even teared up writing that last sentence. Fuck I hate this thing.)

i agree with you sarah, and i too have heard that you can climax after the srs. from what i understand, it can take up to a year after the surgery. they salvage the bundle of nerves from the head of the penis and form a compact clitorous. the female clitorous has 4000 never endings,whereas the male penis only has 2000.

i often get depressed about my 'exrta' appendage.i can sympathize with you sarah. i would rather be alone than be with someone who will see 'that'. i am not into 'admirers' ,for me i feel all they want is to be secretly gay and wont appreciate me for the woman i am. of course that is my own personal opinion. i often wonder what i did wrong in a past life to be cursed with this incorrect body. hopefully in the next life, i will have the right one....