[pom19]

Heck, there are a fair number of cis females who cannot climax through vaginal penetration...just saying...
Sex, or rather, making love, is about so much more than what bits you have. It is about emotion, trust, caring and imagination far more, I believe, than about any simple physical sensation. At least it always has been for me.

you are right samantha, i suppose i just have not found the right person . i have lost faith in the whole 'love' thing and pretty much resigned myself to a life of solitude

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But, it is in solitude that you may find the Beloved one.