[Samantha Rogers]

Oh Eva, you didn't make me cry honey! Thoughts about what's between my legs did! LOL I can see where you are coming from. If mine didn't make me sad and gross me out, then I may feel the same way.

I totally get what you mean by it seeming more like gay sex, squirrel. I find it hard to consider any male who'd want to have sex with a preop TS as anything but creepy. Creepy is not a turnon for me!

Sammie, I don't get your view at all. I've been really in love with girls before, and still found sex to be extremely awkward, so I think body parts DO play a role here. At least for me. Then again, maybe I should be glad it was always awkward, otherwise I'd likely be married by now. Ewww. That's Grosser than sex as a "man".

Sarah, I get that, and I know you well enough to understand.
I imagine for some of us, the bits may play a role, but, as you know by now, I am a total romantic.
I refuse to be cynical about this area.
I believe there is a right person for all of us, and probably more than one.
I sincerely and respectfully submit that loving someone is only part of the total equation. It is also about feeling ( and knowing) that the same love is coming back from the other side. And I say this knowing full well you understand my definition of love to mean it as a verb as much and perhaps more so than a simple feeling. Truly loving another person is way more complex and in a whole other category than "loving" anything else.
At least, that is my story, and I am sticking to it. lol