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Well last night we had a good heart to heart about it on what I want and what she doesn't want she is worried that I'm not going to be me anymore! Does it change you that much or will I still feel the same person I always have?

I seriously doubt the notion that pm is some sort of mind-control agent. With that in mind, a number of individuals report that pm improves their overall being by providing relief from gender dysphoria. Said individuals may feel more relaxed, more in-tune with their female significant other, lose interest in crossdressing, and a decline in libido. Perhaps a question to ask yourself is how comfortable are you with having and expressing feminine traits on both a physical and mental level?