[undecided]

i haven't told her i want breasts but i feel i should take baby steps and not shoot bottle rockets to make explosions like hiroshima. I feel we will see how she deals with me wearing under garments and such and if its ok and goes well i will ease somehow in to wanting breasts, but i am already taking PM and such so idk if i will have time to tell her by the time they develop

Good for you, its better to get the ball rolling now. If she begins to feel weird or uncomfortable down the road, now is easier to part rather than later. These feeling never go away, if anything they get stronger.

Good luck.