Hello and nice to see you here.
If you have been lurking here a while like I did, you already
have learned enough to get a good start and the resources here
will let you fine tune things as you go.
I'm older and just wish I had the ability to go back to 28 for a "do over" knowing what I do now. I thought I HAD to be in a man's role mostly becasue that was society's norm back in the '70's. May I ask why you feel the need for a female relationship when obviously femme feelings are really strong in you. That could be a huge problem down the road
And as Janet says....they will only get stronger. How will you approach it with her when the subject isn't like now....."I like wearing panties" or "I've started PM so I can grow breasts"...but a tougher one like "I've decided I want to have sex with men"? So far it sounds like it's all about you...her not so much.
You're asking alot of her. Most of today's women wouldn't accept you so far. It was selfish of me to try to maintain being a man when deep inside I'm not. And now, it's pretty much too late for me. I've been married a third time for over 20 years and have no male drive at all....only the desire to be femme.
But it isn't for you. Make those tough decisions now, its way easier.
And please I'm not being critical or judging you at all, just reflecting on my own life and why I'm here ....as you are...wanting breasts. Welcome and enjoy.
If you have been lurking here a while like I did, you already
have learned enough to get a good start and the resources here
will let you fine tune things as you go.
I'm older and just wish I had the ability to go back to 28 for a "do over" knowing what I do now. I thought I HAD to be in a man's role mostly becasue that was society's norm back in the '70's. May I ask why you feel the need for a female relationship when obviously femme feelings are really strong in you. That could be a huge problem down the road
And as Janet says....they will only get stronger. How will you approach it with her when the subject isn't like now....."I like wearing panties" or "I've started PM so I can grow breasts"...but a tougher one like "I've decided I want to have sex with men"? So far it sounds like it's all about you...her not so much.
You're asking alot of her. Most of today's women wouldn't accept you so far. It was selfish of me to try to maintain being a man when deep inside I'm not. And now, it's pretty much too late for me. I've been married a third time for over 20 years and have no male drive at all....only the desire to be femme.
But it isn't for you. Make those tough decisions now, its way easier.
And please I'm not being critical or judging you at all, just reflecting on my own life and why I'm here ....as you are...wanting breasts. Welcome and enjoy.